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People are always asking what the most important element to a healthy relationship is.
The 41 is there are many. But there is one really important thing that all great and
healthy relationships have in common-_42 . Yes, of course, there are some little 43
lies even in the best of relationships-44 surprises or unexpected birthday parties-but
the truth is that happy couples communicate honestly and don"t 45 to protect their own
interests. So how can you have more open 46 in your own relationship?
First, remember that honesty is the best policy even 47 your partner might not like
what you have to say. Yes, it may be 48 to tell your guy that you don"t like one of his
friends. But Lying or holding things 49 will make things worse in the long run.
The next thing to be 50 is to say what you have to say 51 . If your partner feels
52 ,he will be less 53 to what you have to say and may even become defensive. Your
delivery is of utmost importance when you are discussing sensitive issues. Think through what
you want to say 54 before you bring it up. You don"t want to 55 the person that you
love. You just want them to be 56 0f the truth.
One last thing to keep in mind about communicating openly is that it enhances your
relationship. If you aren"t honest about any dirty little 57 you may have, they will
probably come up eventually and 58 you in the backside. And if you keep things to
yourself, your relationship will not be based on the truth, which 5 9 a solid foundation.
Hard 60 the truth may be sometimes, honesty really is the best policy.
41.A.phenomenon B.truth C.theory D.evidence
42.A.honesty B.enthusiasm C.cooperation D.persistence
43.A.red B. purple C.white D.black
44.A security B.privilege C.anniversary D.ambition
45.A.lie B.bargain C.complain D.interact
46.A.appreciation B.reputation C.selection D.communication
47.A.why B.when C.how D.where
48.A.tough B.immediate C.complicated D.plain
49.A.in B.on C.above D.back
50.A.serious about B.proud of C.expert at D.worthy of
51.A.obviously B.rudely C.nicely D.smoothly
52.A. puzzled B.attacked C.astonished D.satiied
5 3.A. creative B.relative C.sensitive D.receptive
54.A.slightly B.thoroughly C.frequently D.briefly
55.A.suspect B.convince C.insult D.frighten
5 6.A. afraid B.aware C.ashamed D.capable
5 7.A. uniforms B.secrets C.blankets D.courts
58.A. train B.consult C.understand D.bite
59.A.picks out B.turns on C.makes for D.comes across
60.A.although B.while C.until D.as
41.B事实是有很多要素。
42.A但是有一个真正重要的，所有非常好的和健康的关系共同具备的东西诚实。
43.C是的，当然，即使在最好的关系中也有一些小小的善意的谎言。
44.C周年的惊喜或者出乎意料的生日宴会。
45.A但是事实是幸福的伙伴会坦诚沟通，不会为了保护他们自己的利益而撒谎。
46.D那么你怎样才能在你白己的关系中进行更坦率的交流呢？
47.B首先要记住即使当你的伙伴也许不喜欢你不得不说的内容时，诚实仍然是最上策。
48.A是的，也许告诉你的伙计你不喜欢他的其中一位朋友有困难。
49.D但是从长远来看，撒谎或者隐瞒事情会让事情变得更糟糕。hold back“隐瞒”的意思。
50.A下一个要认真对待的是要好好地说你必须要说的。
51.C解析见上文。
52.B如果你的伙伴感到受到攻击。
53.D他会更不愿意接纳你必须说的，而且甚至会变得有所防卫。
54.B在你谈到某事之前，彻底地想清楚你想要说的。
55.C你不想侮辱你爱的那个人。
56.B你只是想他们知晓真相。
57.B如果你对于你也许有的任何不雅的小秘密不坦诚的话，它们可能最终会出现，咬你的后背。
58.D解析见上文。
59.C如果你把事情藏在心底，你的关系不是建立在事实之上，而事实有助于建立坚实的基础。make for导
致；有助于；走向。
60.D尽管真相有时候可能会不近人情，但是诚实确实是最上策。
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